Can a Sikh have an Anand Karaj with someone who is not Sikh? What does the Guru Granth Sahib say about interfaith marriage?

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh.

My dear seeker, the question of Anand Karaj with someone who is not Sikh is a deeply significant one within our faith, and it's understandable that you seek clarity. The Sikh Rehat Maryada, our code of conduct, provides clear guidance on this matter. It states unequivocally that the Anand Karaj ceremony is intended for two Sikhs. The official position of the Shiromani Gurdwara Parbandhak Committee (SGPC) reinforces this, stipulating that both individuals entering into the Anand Karaj must be Sikhs.

The Rehat Maryada further elaborates on the ideal union within the Sikh faith: "A Sikh man and woman should enter into matrimony without giving thought to the prospective spouse's caste and descent. A Sikh's daughter should be married to a Sikh." This guidance emphasizes the importance of maintaining the integrity of the Sikh household and spiritual lineage.

In practice, this guidance can indeed be a source of significant tension and discussion within many Gurdwaras and families, as individuals navigate their personal relationships alongside their faith. Regarding the Guru Granth Sahib, it does not directly address the concept of interfaith marriage in the way modern society understands it. Its teachings focus on the spiritual union of the soul with Waheguru and the principles of a righteous life within the Sikh path.

If you find yourself in this situation, the most honest and spiritually grounded path is to engage in a direct and heartfelt conversation with the Granthi (custodian of the Guru Granth Sahib) at your local Gurdwara. They can offer pastoral care, guidance, and a deeper understanding of the Rehat Maryada's spirit in your specific circumstances. May Waheguru bless you with wisdom and peace in your journey.